People are looking for an easy ride, assurances, a good time. They want everything from life and from God, they want everything their way but they don't want God. They don't want to obey Jesus Christ and therefor they will perish.
There is only ONE WAY to eternal life and that is the STRAIGHT AND LONELY ROAD following Jesus Christ. Jesus said:”Whoever WISHES to come after Me must DENY HIMSELF, pick up his cross EVERY DAY and come here FOLLOW ME.”
You cannot have a good time now, acceptance in this world, and have everything your way, and still have eternal life. It is either GOD'S WAY or NO WAY. You have to choose, Jesus Christ is the ONLY WAY. Follow and OBEY Him or you will certainly perish.
May Jesus bless you.