The only way that we can have eternal life is if we FOLLOW Jesus, OBEY Him and DO what is pleasing to Him. Those who are led by the Spirit of God THEY are the sons of God. If we do not know what the will of God is WE MUST ASK. We must ask every day, every moment, He will tell us. If you do not know what is wrong in your life, if you do not know what it is that separates you from God, ASK, PRAY! Ask Jesus and He will tell you.
Only Jesus can tell you but if you do not ask you will not receive and if you do not ask you will not know and you will not be able to DO what is pleasing to God. We have to GO AFTER Jesus, we have to SERVE Him, We have to ASK Him to SHOW us, to TELL us what He wants us to do.
Don't trust in people, don't trust in what people say, don't trust in what you hear or what you read, trust in Jesus and He will guide you. Be led by the Holy Spirit and you will be able to DO what is pleasing to God. ASK and He will guide you.
May Jesus bless you.