Without holiness no man shall see God and that is why sinners have no relationship with God, they have no communion with Him. If we come to Jesus with a serious heart and we repent of our sins then He forgives us and He cleanses us of all unrighteousness. If we are then baptized in water our sins are washed away and we must remain pure and holy like He is holy IF we want to have communion, relationship with Him.
The reason why most Christians have no relationship, no communion with Jesus, is because they are sinners. Sin separates us from God. Those who are pure in heart, they will see God, they will HEAR Him, they will live in communion with Him and they will get to KNOW Jesus Christ. Most Christians live in sin, they don't care for sin. They think that because they believe in Jesus and because they can quote some Bible verses and because they had some experience with Jesus some time ago that they are saved, they are NOT! They are in darkness because they are not walking with Jesus. They do not HEAR from Him, they do not LISTEN to Him, they do not FOLLOW Him, they are LOST!
We have to be holy like He who called us is holy. Without holiness no man shall see God. We can only come into the presence of God if we are pure and holy. We need to keep ourselves UNSTAINED FROM THE WORLD, from worldly influences. Don't watch TV! Don't participate in the same talk! Don't get involved in the same things. Keep yourself PURE AND HOLY and RESERVE YOURSELF UNTO JESUS and HE WILL REVEAL HIMSELF TO YOU.
Cleanse yourself of all unrighteousness, unholiness, be pure and holy, REPENT! Be baptized in water and keep yourself clean UNSTAINED FROM THE WORLD, reserved unto Jesus, and He will reveal Himself to you. God has NO RELATIONSHIP WITH SINNING CHRISTIANS. Be pure and holy and you will walk with God.
May Jesus bless you.